Are We Having Fun Yet? by Lucy Mangan

Are We Having Fun Yet? cover

Are We Having Fun Yet by Lucy Mangan has its moments although at the beginning it reminded me far too much of the BBC TV programme Motherhood, without the diverse group of mothers that feature in that so comically. Liz and Richard are I suppose upper middle class – as is everyone else featured, it feels very autobiographical and to be fair anyone who has had children will recognise many of the situations as Liz struggles to deal with domestic angst, her two young children, and a husband who is somewhat semi-detached and in a world of his own.

As ever with this sort of writing it’s the children who are the stars and provide a lot of the humour. As a reader of Lucy Mangan’s articles since she began writing in the Guardian I had trouble separating her personality with that of Liz as it is so similar to her columns.

I found it annoying that Liz is so frazzled by childcare when she has very supportive parents living half an hour away, and that Liz (Lucy) describes herself as being ‘northern’ despite being brought up in the south of England. Having northern parents doesn’t count, where you went to school does!

Having loved Mangan’s Bookworm I found this one to be a bit disappointing and predictable but I suspect that as a granny and an actual ‘northern’ person, if you count Scotland as the north – but so many people don’t – I’m not the target audience.

I received a digital copy of the book via NetGalley. Thank you.

Bookworm A Memoir of CHILDHOOD READING by Lucy Mangan

 Bookworm cover

Bookworm A Memoir of CHILDHOOD READING by Lucy Mangan seemed to be being read by so many of the blogs that I visit last year, but it has taken me a while to get around to it. I really like Lucy Mangan in the articles she writes for the Guardian and I knew that she had a huge collection of books, even the actual books she had as a child. I’m envious of that as my mother gave all of mine away – to a younger child who didn’t even read! – it still enrages me. When I started to read Susan Hill’s Howards End is on the Landing this book is what I hoped and expected it to be but I was sorely disappointed with that one. I suspect that Lucy Mangan was too and decided to do a better job of writing about her childhood books – and she certainly did. I loved it.

Lucy was incredibly lucky to have been brought up in a family where books were loved and to have a father who supplied her with books that he thought she would love. Her mother did worry that Lucy never seemed to play outside, she was stuck on the sofa reading as often as she could and hated having to go to childhood parties. Socialising was not her thing, she preferred the lives inside the books she was reading and she devoured them. Her reading experiences don’t quite match mine though as she ranges from The Very Hungry Caterpillar – a book that I read to my own children but didn’t know as a child – and almost ends with her experiences of Sweet Valley High, definitely after my time.

But in between Lucy talks enthusiastically of her love of so many different books and her love of her local library, she bonded with her father through books and at the time was totally unaware that her sister was busy bonding with their father through visits to all sorts of places that Lucy hadn’t been to – as she was too busy living inside books. What a great father he was/is.

Illustrated books, Ladybirds, Puffins, boarding school books, pony books, Alice, Blyton, Narnia, Nesbit, Streatfeild, Tom Sawyer, Holiday House, Anne of Green Gables, Dahl, Winnie the Pooh, the Brontes …. just about every children’s book you could think of gets a mention – except Peter Pan which seems bizarre to me as I love that one.

On reaching ‘double figures’ Lucy noticed that things had changed in the playground. There was no more playing with the boys. ‘The girls had hived themselves off and stopped running around and getting sweaty. They played with each other’s hair and compared frilly ankle socks and fancy pencil cases instead. If a boy spoke to you now, you had to giggle instead of answer. The boys were baffled. I was baffled. I tried giggling once, but it was not to be.’ Lucy wasn’t a twirly girl.

How well I remember those days and honestly I was glad when I left school that I didn’t have to be in the same room as those inane gigglers and constant hair flickers. I never did grow into make-up, hair flicking and nail varnish.

In passing Lucy mentions that boarding schools lost popularity when free secondary education came in after World War 2. I’d hate anyone to think that that was the same for the whole of the UK as education had been free in Scotland long long before then. The state of English education was quite shocking.

Reading this book is like having a chat with Lucy, especially if you read her Guardian articles and know about her family already. I borrowed this one from the library but I think it’s a book that I would enjoy dipping into every now and then so I’ll probably buy a copy of it.

As I moved onto books for adults far too early I’ve been busy catching up with children’s books I missed out on as a youngster but I’ve had to take notes of so many more that I hadn’t even heard of and were/are adored by Lucy Mangan.

Lucy Mangan – on secondhand bookshops

I always enjoy Lucy Mangan’s column in the Guardian Weekend section but this week’s is about secondhand bookshops. So just in case you don’t read the Guardian routinely, but also have a love for those wonderful serendipitous shops, I thought I would link to her article
which you can read here.

Now I’m just annoyed that Norfolk is so far away from me and I didn’t find any of the bookshops when we were near there briefly last year.